Don't let the House crushes your nerves

Surveys show that up to 98% of "House poor" will have on the mental anxiety, thereby reducing the happiness of the whole society. Experts caution--don't let House crushes your nerves of the experts interviewed: Harbin Woodpecker Studio advanced psychological counselor Zhang Gaoyuan psychological counseling as the TV series of the popular TV program of the dwelling, theatrical actress haiping buy for housing arising from the experience of many young people carry the mortgage resonance. As the "House slave" force expansion and growth, psychological problems of this group is also to be felt. This "men and women" forum users posting perilla Frutescens, want us to look at "generation y" brought by crunching old by loans to buy housing stress. Experts say "House slave" psychological sub-health status should not be overlooked. To House has lost too much of the recent survey shows that up to 98% of House poor in China, will have on the mental anxiety. Mainly in the frequent insomnia, depression, bad temper, mood. Many mortgage buy describing himself as "snail" family. Them with a House, while you are enjoying the House a family of psychological comfort, are also under "does not work in a day, would have been abandoned in the world" spirit of heavy pressure, decline in quality of life greatly: can't easily change your job, not entertainment, tourism, fear of Bank rising income, fear of illness, unemployment, and have no time to enjoy life. Part of this anxiety comes from individuals, and some from the community. High House prices and the difficulties of low-income is the contrast between the public, long-term mortgage is social pressure applied to each individual, not personal capacity deficiencies. "House poor" were to recognize that rely on their ability to repay the mortgage, to live and work is something to be proud of, should actively look, sure, you don't get the overall social anxiety are carrying on their shoulders. Blind buy large House does not reason now buy room of loan conditions comparison loose, led many people easy moment impulse, ignored own of economic and psychological bear ability, does not reason to purchase has beyond economic bear ability of large House, monthly most income are used to loan; although live area large has, is caused economic Shang and psychological Shang of heavy pressure, offset has live large House should have of happiness sense, into has asthma however gas of "snail", instead and comfortable not. Or buy a house without capability, where rivalries in blindly, with large houses to vanity, which were planted for the psychological problems of the curse. Therefore, important to buy capability, mind objectively, control within a reasonable proportion of their income home loans, this House is small, but many psychological comfort. Often motivate implied "one eyes every day, there is a mortgage, a variety of living expenses, such as a series of numbers jump out of my mind". In reality, many people, like haiping, these figures in mind all day. In fact, it is artificial to impose negative mental implied himself, should be avoided. Proposed "House slave" may wish to replace thinking: Although you want to pay the mortgage, to pay interest, but do not have to pay the rent, for room for others to own, House as immovable property will also appreciate why anxiety? Psychology considers what he thought of what would become, so one should always give yourself positive: the money after prepayment! And use it to positively motivate, as a living buying long-term investments in efficient, learn to turn pressure into motivation, this live feel "prospect", can also ease psychologically. Reporter Lee polyester non-original see December 10, 2009 Edition of the family health report "mental stop"